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WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL by Oluwadamilola Kokumo


What is relationship???

The way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected.

The state of being connected by blood or marriage.
Relationship is a very delicate aspect of life that need to be thoroughly evaluated by both parties before coming to a point of consensus ad idem. 

Relationship is an aspect of life which is liable to lift or drop a man emotionally or mentally.

Just have 5 points to share as it just a short session but advise you to look into it before you say "YES I DO".




REASON RELATIONSHIP FAIL

1) Differences in vision and purpose.

2) In many cases both parties do not agree on each others goal or calling. Scripture speaking in  Amos 3:3  "Can two walk together except they  agree?" when this is not in view absolutely failure is inevitable in relationship.

3) The place of God in a matter. Many relationships also fail when it is not the will of God for them to be bound as one! In most cases many youths go into relationship all for a major reason which is LOVE forgetting the place of enquiry.

There must be enquiry from the Lord which is far from many ignorant youths of today.

4) PRE-MARITAL SEX. Some youth are Christ addict while some are not. In a case where you're joined with a partner that believes so much in sex before marriage in which you don't subscribe to, Such partner will definitely pull out because it is not a belief to involve in such which is totally against her/his  religious ethics according to Hebrew 13:4.

MISPLACE OF PRIORITY!
A confused person can never have a smooth relationship. Like a person who doesn't know what she/he deserves would always find every relationship frustrated and boring!
Anybody here?

Lastly... Insecurity!
Some relationship fails when one party finds his/herself insecure with the other party as a result of this jealousy and all sort of things creeps in.
If one of both isn't comfortable, opting out is the best option and that's another reason why relationship fails.

God bless every heart that incline to these in Jesus name


[A PUBLICATION OF THE PRAYER CHAIN MINISTRY]
©October  2019

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